Labels suck. I am surprised this wasn't clear: I actively avoid dating men and have done so for a while (with only a couple token experiments). I won't date them or try to get into a relationship with them. I also actively chase them off when they approach me (and I do get offers, I am one hell of a catch).

Nevertheless, I can't call myself a lesbian because I do have the occasional attraction and the term "lesbian" is sacred and pure. I must never defile it. It does not matter that I only ever seriously dated women and am moving in with my lesbian girlfriend, because occasionally I think a boy is cute. It's about my essence, not my actions.

Calling myself bisexual is misleading because I actively avoid men. I could, but then all sorts of misunderstandings will occur.

I kind of choose Queer to indicate a disdain for the mundane.