Not the case for everyone. For myself, I prefer P and V because I can easily come from it just by itself. Clitoral stimulation just can be too much and has to be done right imo. I taught my partner from the beginning how to work with me and vice versa. I'm not here for a long time so why should I fake? I only really faked on one night stands/hookups because it always turned out to be "please can we get this over with" deal.

Then again, you're perfectly in the right to feel upset. I also understand her view where she may feel like too much work to get herself to orgasm during sex. She needs to teach you because she knows herself best. I'm sorry this happened to you, it is a massive ego burn. I'm sure she meant well. Talk to her, communicate, see what you two can do from here. A lot of these comments are super helpful