For me, the biggest detriment is my own emotional state. I’m recently out of a long term relationship and I would not want to be in a relationship with the absolute perfection (for me) of a woman.

Besides that, strong physical attraction, having a great emotional connection where there is mutual vulnerability and sharing, and great humor match is what wants me to get into a relationship. I love it when a woman has her shit together and has a purpose beyond wanting to be with someone. That’s a nice addition, but a terrible primary goal.

There is nothing the world that would want me to run in the other direction faster than someone taking over my social media and declaring they are madly in love with me after a week of meeting someone.