All I’m saying is people seem to be conflating the idea that men can in fact get themselves off in mere minutes (and enjoy doing so) with the idea that men actively want to leave women unsatisfied because they don’t care what women want. These are two separate ideas and to acknowledge the first doesn’t mean you participate in the second.

There are definitely some men who don’t care what women want, come in 2 minutes, and then fall asleep. But I’m pretty sure most men are acutely aware of the fact that they totally could come in 2 minutes, and might have enjoyed it as well, but decide to go along with whatever the woman wants because fuck it why wouldn’t they, it’ll probably be a good time, and seeing her enjoy herself is part of what they wanted to see going into this anyways.