I was friends with him for a few yrs before we got together. I lived on the same road, went to high school together. At the time in high school I was into bad boys, he never lost a fight. Was blunt and had a sense of humour. I knew he was into big boobs, we had one friend who had them. After time it got to the point she would only talk to him and not me. We got pregnant, he wasn't that supportive the way a father should be. He didn't comfort her when she cried, didn't change diaper, never got up to feed her. So I got tired of it, since it was jus me doin mostly everything no point having him around. Kicked him out, they got together when I kicked him out. They never lasted long, he made her work 2 jobs. In the end karma cought up to him, he owes $15,000 in child Maintence. He has a rare case of cancer, ei and medical pay ran out. Living off welfare and trying to raise a son in the process. My daughter who is 10 rarely asks about him, she accepts he is no part of her life. For me, I trusted my instincts. The signs were there and I happened to be right. Apparently everyone knew, jus couldn't tell me because we were newly parents. But I forgave both of them. She is still single raising her kid today. Karma will catch up, and it's nice to witness it.