I don't trust people who keep gushing about their SO's in social media

I was like this during my first relationship; I was always sharing our photos together, flex how long we are etc tho admittedly, I was super young then kaya I was like this. It also ended up being more of a phase for me despite it being almost 5 years because I drew this imagery in my mind of a perfect relationship and a perfect couple etc but I ended up losing connection with the person and I could tell you now that I think I just thought that I needed it at the time but I really didn't.

Now I have an SO and I rarely shared our moments together. I rarely take photos or record a video besides the usual ones you want for memories because I am so in the moment that I just cherish it with the person.

though at the the end of the day, kanya-kanya pa rin but sad reality is minsan you're so focused on making everything picture perfect na di na pala siya healthy tapos thinga beyond that aren't being worked on properly.

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