Why don’t nice guys just go for nice girls?

Why would I do that?

You were trying to disqualify my disagreeing with you by pulling the "You haven't lived this, you don't know" card. But I actually have. So I told you that.

But I'm not telling you my life story and I don't care to hear yours. All I'm saying is you're wrong. Putting everything on "the world, society, and everyone but myself" is a recipe FOR dysfunction. Not the cure for it. You fix your life, recover from a bad start, or whatever it is by accepting what you can and can't control. But letting go of what you can't and doing your best to improve what you can. Letting go of that chip on your shoulder.

Playing the game you talk about is what turns people INTO the crazy people going on rampages.

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