Hey no hate on meeting new people - online or not. I'm about the same age as you, and was obsessed with online chatting from like 1999 to 2009. I'm not saying you shouldn't be doing that, and no judgment about that whatsoever.
But you're trying to blame OF for not being able to find women to chat with. There's 2 million OF content creators - obviously not all are women, not all are active, not all are about sex. There's 4 billion females in the world - obviously not all are adults. Using those numbers, that's one half a percent of OF content creators to females in this world. The amount of females on OF is a small pond compared to the oceans of females in this world.